Why are nice girls who tend to spoil their boyfriends always treated like crap? :(?

Okay, I know there are the two types of guys: the typical "Bad-***" and the "Nerdy-sweet" guy. But your boyfriend seems to be both. This is NOT a healthy relationship, its extreamilly bad. If the only time he showers you in attention is when he knows he is in trouble, means he doesnt want to lose you in the fact that he's in love with having a girlfriend, which is different than being in love with you. I think breaking up with him is your best shot at finding someone that is way better for you, like I did. It took me over 6 months to get over the break-up and another 5 to find someone new. But I did :) Theres someone out there for everyone, and this guys going to find someone too, but he isn't the one for you in my opinion.